First Date
Better than "so, what do you do?"
How to play
Questions that skip the CV exchange and get somewhere interesting fast — without being intense enough to scare anyone. Save this page before the date. Nobody has to know.
Tap the card to draw a question and take turns answering. The deck holds all 30 questions and never repeats until it runs out — then shuffle to go again. Prefer to browse? The full list is below, and screenshotting it for the group chat is very much encouraged.
All 30 questions
- What’s something you could talk about for an hour with no preparation?
- What did you want to be when you were ten?
- What’s the best thing that happened to you this month?
- Are you close with your family, or is that complicated?
- What’s something people usually get wrong about you at first?
- How do you like to spend a completely free Saturday?
- What’s the last thing that made you laugh out loud?
- What are you weirdly competitive about?
- What’s a small thing that instantly makes your day better?
- What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?
- Do you believe people change, or mostly stay who they are?
- What are you currently obsessed with?
- Where would you go tomorrow if someone handed you a ticket?
- What’s your idea of a really good day, hour by hour?
- What do your friends come to you for?
- What’s something you’ve changed your mind about recently?
- Do you prefer a plan or making it up as you go?
- What’s the nicest thing anyone has done for you?
- What are you working on that you’re proud of?
- What’s a hobby you’d pick up if time and money didn’t matter?
- What kind of tired are you usually — busy tired or bored tired?
- What do you need more of in your life right now?
- What’s a red flag you’d walk away from immediately?
- What’s something you find attractive that isn’t about looks?
- How do you handle it when you’re upset with someone?
- What do you want your life to look like in five years?
- What was your last relationship like, in one sentence?
- What’s something you’re still learning about yourself?
- Do you want the same things now that you wanted at twenty?
- What made you say yes to this date?
Play kindly. Anyone can pass on any question, always.
Common questions
How do you play First Date?
Open the deck on any phone, tap the card to draw a random question, and take turns answering. The deck holds 30 questions and never repeats one until it runs out. Pass the phone around the group, or cast it to a TV so everyone can read along.
How many First Date questions are there?
This deck has 30 questions, all listed on this page. MochiQuiz has 330 party questions in total across 11 themed decks, free and with no sign-up.
Is it free?
Yes. Every question and every deck is free, there is no account to create, nothing to download, and no limit on how many times you play.
Can I use these questions offline?
Yes. All 30 questions are printed on this page, so you can screenshot the list for your group chat or print them onto cards for a real game night.