About this test
"Red flag" went from dating-advice jargon to a whole cultural language β but the internet mostly uses it to judge everyone else. This quiz flips the camera around. The 12 questions cover the behaviors relationship researchers actually care about: how you argue, how you apologize, jealousy, trust, and whether you communicate or perform "I'm fine" theater.
It's honest, a little savage, and best shared with the group chat. For the psychology behind common red and green flags, read our guide to relationship flags.
For entertainment and self-reflection only β not a medical or psychological diagnosis.